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  1. 09-30-2009, 12:09 AM #1
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    WTF IS WRONG WITH WOMEN.

    okay so i had been dating this girl for 5 years. started dating her on my birthday back in 2004. so it has been great. we had a very truthful and loving relationship. But here is the thing. monday(9-28) our 5 year anniversary was a great night. i got her this beautiful silver necklace. cost like 250 bucks. that she could wear instead of the dog tags my uncle had gotten for me along time ago.

    So tuesday night i am hanging out with and we are having a great time. then she goes i have something to tell you about. so im like okay. W/E so she tells me that about a month ago when i was in Texas seeing the sox she fucked another dude. SO I AM PISSED OFF. i ask how many times. she tells me one guy just like 5 times. So i know she is lying to me. we had been dating for 5 years on monday and she decided to cheat on me. she totally fucked more than just 5 times.

    So i am fucking done. she says to me, "Atleast i told you." Oh this really sets me off. i yell for about 5 minutes and just fucking say. You dirty little slut we are done. she slapped me for that one and i just

    She starts crying. and yelling, "but i told you" so i ask for my dog tags back and she says well you cant have them anymore. so i grab all the shit i could find in her room. and just leave. since i left her house at 10:30 she has been calling me ever since. Voicemails saying ," i love you and im sorry but atleast i told you." "Plus he wore a condom."

    She expects me to come back to her. im like bullshit. fuck i wanted to punch her so hard in the face. as i was typing this she called me 3 times. saying i want you back.
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  2. 09-30-2009, 12:12 AM #2
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    Wow, sorry to hear that. I wouldn't take her back, either. When it comes to infidelity, forgive and forget isn't really my style.
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  3. 09-30-2009, 12:14 AM #3
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    Quote Originally Posted by Keeper;482373;
    Wow, sorry to hear that. I wouldn't take her back, either. When it comes to infidelity, forgive and forget isn't really my style.
    i dont think i could even look her in the eyes. after five years of fucking her. it would feel weird fucking her after some dude did her.
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  4. 09-30-2009, 12:21 AM #4
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    I can't believe she expected the "he wore a condom" part to make you feel better about it. It's like something out of a bad comedy.
    And who are you, the proud lord said, that I must bow so low?
    Only a cat of a different coat, that's all the truth I know. In a coat of gold or a coat of red, a lion still has claws, And mine are long and sharp, my lord, as long and sharp as yours.
  5. 09-30-2009, 12:24 AM #5
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    Quote Originally Posted by Keeper;482377;
    I can't believe she expected the "he wore a condom" part to make you feel better about it. It's like something out of a bad comedy.
    i know right. she expects a condom makes everything better. it makes some things better but not this. i was so close to punching. if it wasn't for me being a good person i would have decked her ass.

    she was a virgin(i think) when i met her. and now shes gonna be some damn whore who fucks for money. dirty slut.
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  6. 09-30-2009, 12:35 AM #6
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    Quote Originally Posted by bsox0407;482375;
    i dont think i could even look her in the eyes. after five years of fucking her. it would feel weird fucking her after some dude did her.

    True love and longterm relationships are about who you want by your bedside when you're dying, or when you're so sick that you're shitting yourself and need someone to lovingly clean it up without thinking twice. Maybe she's the one, maybe not, but keep that in mind. It isn't about who's the hottest girl you can get, or whether the person who loved you ever cared about someone else. It's about finding a partner you actually connected with. You had one for awhile, but only you know if she was the one.

    If you have no reason to believe she would rather be with this guy (and maybe she would, who knows) or if you believe they are totally through, then think about your future and all the other girls you've met before buring that bridge.

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    Rip her fucking ovaries out with your bare hands.
  8. 09-30-2009, 01:32 AM #8
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    Just move on. Call it a lesson learned in life.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gom;482383;
    Just move on. Call it a lesson learned in life.
    Jesus Gom's, have a little sympathy for him.

    That was totally fucked up what she did to him.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bsox0407;482372;
    okay so i had been dating this girl for 5 years. started dating her on my birthday back in 2004. so it has been great. we had a very truthful and loving relationship. But here is the thing. monday(9-28) our 5 year anniversary was a great night. i got her this beautiful silver necklace. cost like 250 bucks. that she could wear instead of the dog tags my uncle had gotten for me along time ago.

    So tuesday night i am hanging out with and we are having a great time. then she goes i have something to tell you about. so im like okay. W/E so she tells me that about a month ago when i was in Texas seeing the sox she fucked another dude. SO I AM PISSED OFF. i ask how many times. she tells me one guy just like 5 times. So i know she is lying to me. we had been dating for 5 years on monday and she decided to cheat on me. she totally fucked more than just 5 times.

    So i am fucking done. she says to me, "Atleast i told you." Oh this really sets me off. i yell for about 5 minutes and just fucking say. You dirty little slut we are done. she slapped me for that one and i just

    She starts crying. and yelling, "but i told you" so i ask for my dog tags back and she says well you cant have them anymore. so i grab all the shit i could find in her room. and just leave. since i left her house at 10:30 she has been calling me ever since. Voicemails saying ," i love you and im sorry but atleast i told you." "Plus he wore a condom."

    She expects me to come back to her. im like bullshit. fuck i wanted to punch her so hard in the face. as i was typing this she called me 3 times. saying i want you back.
    Hey man, sorry to hear this. I know there is nothing I or anyone could say to make you feel better, but I hope the best for you here on out.
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    Re: WTF IS WRONG WITH WOMEN.

    Actually i have to side with Gom in this one.

    It happens to the best of us.
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  12. 09-30-2009, 06:12 AM #12
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dipre;482404;
    Actually i have to side with Gom in this one.

    It happens to the best of us.
    it does but you should be able to think it wont happen in the fourth year of a relationship that you have never fought with the other.

    It is a major trust issue. when i would look her in the eyes i would think she is lying. it would take me a while before i could trust her let alone look her her in the eyes.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bsox0407;482409;
    it does but you should be able to think it wont happen in the fourth year of a relationship that you have never fought with the other.

    It is a major trust issue. when i would look her in the eyes i would think she is lying. it would take me a while before i could trust her let alone look her her in the eyes.
    I'm gonna be blunt with you dude.

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  14. 09-30-2009, 07:30 AM #14
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    The biggest problem here is that she doesn't seem really all that remorseful about cheating, she keeps justifying it by saying at least she told you, thinking being honest there makes it OK. Thing is, she wasn't honest with the relationship by cheating on you, and five times at that.

    No one here can tell you what to do, whether to forgive her or walk away. You have to let this sit for awhile, ponder everything and make decision from there.
  15. 09-30-2009, 07:39 AM #15
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    Quote Originally Posted by BoSox21;482418;
    The biggest problem here is that she doesn't seem really all that remorseful about cheating, she keeps justifying it by saying at least she told you, thinking being honest there makes it OK. Thing is, she wasn't honest with the relationship by cheating on you, and five times at that.

    No one here can tell you what to do, whether to forgive her or walk away. You have to let this sit for awhile, ponder everything and make decision from there.
    Exactly. Is say stay away from her. Odds are it wasn't just a one time thing either. Sorry to hear this man, just have faith that all girls aren't like that.
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